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For PFIZ! Real love...... 06 Aug 2013 23:37 #1

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PFIZ, you said that you would like a thread on 'Real love'....

So, come on everyone...what is real love to you?
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 06 Aug 2013 23:41 #2

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A quiet thing that raises a smile, not the guffawing of "Hollywood Love". A feeling of deep satisfaction and warmth, not the" Hollywood Howling And Squealing" we're supposed to measure lurve by.

And, really, from my own personal viewpoint - seeing everyone and everything Safe, Healthy, Happy and Well. That's Love.
"...Wyrde saves oft the man undoomed
if he undaunted be....". (Beowulf).

"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths... Beautiful people do not just happen". (Elisabeth Kubler-Ross).


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For PFIZ! Real love...... 06 Aug 2013 23:48 #3

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For PFIZ.... :)

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For PFIZ! Real love...... 06 Aug 2013 23:55 #4

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pheony wrote:
So, come on everyone...what is real love to you?

Its when two people connect in a unique way, become everything to each other. :)

And perhaps there is an outside 'force' of love too, that makes it happen also.

I don't understand the mechanisms of love, I just know that it is real. :)
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 07 Aug 2013 00:51 #5

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The connections, rather than the barriers.
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 07 Aug 2013 01:05 #6

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Yes. The connections are very important.
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 07 Aug 2013 02:05 #7

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No Oo er missus.
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 07 Aug 2013 02:26 #8

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Ya what? :D



And whatever it is, it wasn't me :coffee:
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 07 Aug 2013 22:44 #9

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Between a man and a woman...Isn't love always real at the time, until someone decides it's not real anymore and turns it into something else? Hate.





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For PFIZ! Real love...... 08 Aug 2013 18:44 #10

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To me everything can be reduced to fear (emotions) and love (existence, life itself).

Truth is the utmost level of existence.

You can't "give" love. You can only show what and who you are.
If you are love, you are able to expose your essence, yourself, real love, but you can't "give" or "receive" it.
Love is a state of mind and existence.

Truth is something you can express and it's the utmost expression of love.
Two people who are love can show each other their true nature.
This is the utmost level of love/life.


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because error is repeatedly preached among us, not
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and cyclopaedias, in schools and universities; every-
where, in fact, error prevails, and is quite easy in the
feeling that it has a decided majority on its side."

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For PFIZ! Real love...... 08 Aug 2013 19:10 #11

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pheony wrote:
Between a man and a woman...Isn't love always real at the time, until someone decides it's not real anymore and turns it into something else? Hate.





:gmc:

I dunno....that's a difficult question.

Perhaps its this: when it is genuinely real for BOTH of the people involved, then it lasts for ever between those two people. You do see it....two old people who fell for each other years and years ago, and the love is still clearly there for them.

But if (as is unfortunately all too often the case as the evidence all around us shows) only ONE of the two people involved genuinely felt true love in the first place, when that fact inevitably becomes clear at some point down the line, then that person feels so hurt and betrayed after having given everything of themselves to the other only to find it wasn't real at all....well yes maybe that could turn love into hate (or a facsimile of hate) for them.
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 08 Aug 2013 19:43 #12

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PFIZIPFEI wrote:
To me everything can be reduced to fear (emotions) and love (existence, life itself).

Truth is the utmost level of existence.

You can't "give" love. You can only show what and who you are.
If you are love, you are able to expose your essence, yourself, real love, but you can't "give" or "receive" it.
Love is a state of mind and existence.

Truth is something you can express and it's the utmost expression of love.
Two people who are love can show each other their true nature.
This is the utmost level of love/life.


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I thought long and hard about what I thought 'real love' was and the only thing that came to mind was 'Truth'. I didn't write this one powerful word because I knew I wouldn't be able to explain it. You, have written about truth and explained it well, so I know you understand. :)
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 08 Aug 2013 19:50 #13

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diamondgeezer wrote:
pheony wrote:
Between a man and a woman...Isn't love always real at the time, until someone decides it's not real anymore and turns it into something else? Hate.





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I dunno....that's a difficult question.

Perhaps its this: when it is genuinely real for BOTH of the people involved, then it lasts for ever between those two people. You do see it....two old people who fell for each other years and years ago, and the love is still clearly there for them.

But if (as is unfortunately all too often the case as the evidence all around us shows) only ONE of the two people involved genuinely felt true love in the first place, when that fact inevitably becomes clear at some point down the line, then that person feels so hurt and betrayed after having given everything of themselves to the other only to find it wasn't real at all....well yes maybe that could turn love into hate (or a facsimile of hate) for them.

I suppose what I wrote there was about fear. Hate was too strong a word, but real love is not to be taken lightly and I don't think many are capable of it.
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 08 Aug 2013 21:07 #14

PFIZIPFEI wrote:
To me everything can be reduced to fear (emotions) and love (existence, life itself).

Truth is the utmost level of existence.

You can't "give" love. You can only show what and who you are.
If you are love, you are able to expose your essence, yourself, real love, but you can't "give" or "receive" it.
Love is a state of mind and existence.

Truth is something you can express and it's the utmost expression of love.
Two people who are love can show each other their true nature.
This is the utmost level of love/life.


:beat:

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...Molti nemici molto onore...
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 09 Aug 2013 20:36 #15

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There is no reason for being afraid of using "strong" words without being able to explain them, Phe :)

TRUTH is one of the most beautiful words we have in human language.

Only those who hate the truth need to be afraid of it :hugs:
"The truth must be repeated over and over again,
because error is repeatedly preached among us, not
only by individuals, but by the masses. In periodicals
and cyclopaedias, in schools and universities; every-
where, in fact, error prevails, and is quite easy in the
feeling that it has a decided majority on its side."

~ J. W. v. Goethe

Johannes Lang "The Hollow World Theory" Blog
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For PFIZ! Real love...... 16 Aug 2013 20:12 #16

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Thanks to Lisa Robin Kelly
today I discovered That 70's Show
and I love it - watching it since hours on yt (glad it's not yet made unavailable here)

Season 5 Episode 7 - Hot Dog - is about real love between a man and a woman



Thought to share it because it's funny AND authentic
(not the usual crap)

Enjoy!

:)
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and cyclopaedias, in schools and universities; every-
where, in fact, error prevails, and is quite easy in the
feeling that it has a decided majority on its side."

~ J. W. v. Goethe

Johannes Lang "The Hollow World Theory" Blog
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